Who Ruled the Kitchen

Ask the question, then sit back and let the story come at its own pace.

In every home, someone was in charge of the stove. The moves were learned by heart, and nothing was measured. A wooden spoon held out for a taste, a smell that said dinner was almost ready, and sometimes a recipe the whole family asked for when company came. Who did the cooking at your house, and which dish turned out best?

A memory to share—every answer is welcome